Holidays

Holidays are pretty hard around our home- I am trying my hardest to change the pattern for my son, so he can feel warm about them, and not dread them as I do-
I would say on a revolving schedule on major holidays, my husband and I have pretty devestating fights- they hit hard, and god are they a devastating to my internal system- I don't want to go into great detail about it for all the internet world to see (or those few readers) but I am recovering, you learn things though marriage, and boy isnt easy, but its worth it-